Sexuality Information

Having Sex or Making Love


Actually, the difference between the two concepts is bigger than some of us would like it to be. And, as almost every time, women feel it the most. What is the difference? Well, love. Women need to be protected, looked after and loved as much in bed as in every day life.

Keep in mind that this is not just a legend used by women to manipulate men. The difference between having sex and making love, together with it's implications in a couple's sex life is what many men forget when sharing the bed-sheets with a woman.

Clearly, everything written so far will not apply to one-night-stands. In those cases it is all about a sexual intercourse between two people who only share their bodies. After the bottom line has been drawn, most men feel good about themselves after a one-night- stand, without thinking about their sexual performance. Totally pleasing a woman from the very first time is no easy job as the only mystery she had disclosed is her body.

Yet, most men are attracted to one-night-stands or, with other words, to having sex. The lack of commitment needed and the easy attaining of the main goal: feeling good, are just two reasons pleading in favor of having sex.

On the other hand there is so much more between a man and a woman making love. There are feelings and emotions, leading to a totally different connection between the two of them. More than that, for women, one of the most important things during sex is the environment. And this means everything from location to those few candles some like to place around the bed.

Let's take them in turn a little bit. If you want to leave her smiling and begging for a cigarette and some more there are some things you might like to take into consideration.

Trying dad's old car's rear suspension will make the car happier than her. The ideal location would certainly be a bed in a nice and cozy room with nothing interfering with the moment. Someone knocking on the door or even a ringing phone can have very undesirable effects. Some candle-like lights and easy-listening music in the background adds even more to the overall foreplay.

Explore every inch of her body and draw imaginary contours with your fingers and tongue, kiss her neck, breasts, belly and legs, all in a specific order surrounding the most important area and closing in at the same time. All this will increase the tension and when that moment comes both you and her will feel the difference.

Communication is essential for great results. Men must pay attention to the unspoken signs every woman gives them. Ignoring these signs will make women feel used. The old legend that says that when a woman says "no" she actually means "yes" is nothing more than a poor excuse so keep your ears open for her desires.

If all goes well, you might be given the supreme sexual command and that's "don't stop!" When you hear that, whatever you do, DON'T STOP!

Caterina Christakos is a published author and dating coach. To learn what really turns women on go to: http://www.what-women-want.com


MORE RESOURCES:

"Seduction" Surveys Sexuality in Fashion
Fashion Wire Daily (subscription), NY - 1 hour ago
The old adage of that which is concealed can be more alluring than what is revealed is just one of the classic tropes about the role of sexuality in fashion ...


MTV.com

Aubrey O'Day Opens Up About Her Sexuality: 'I Think It's Funny ...
MTV.com - Jan 6, 2009
By Jocelyn Vena, with reporting by Matt Elias Aubrey O'Day certainly doesn't mind courting controversy, particularly with regard to her sexuality. ...
Aubrey O'Day Speaks About Her Sexuality Examiner.com
all 43 news articles


Examiner.com

Sexuality in 'Sally Forth'?
Examiner.com - 6 hours ago
by Brian Steinberg, Comics Examiner Comic strips, for the most part, portray a society much like that depicted in "I Love Lucy" or "The Honeymooners. ...


LGB youth less healthy if parents reject their sexuality
Out & About, TN - 2 hours ago
by O&AN Staff Reports For the first time, researchers have established a clear link between family rejection of lesbian, gay and bisexual (LGB) adolescents ...


Aubrey O'Day thinks it's funny we care about her sexuality
AfterEllen.com - Jan 6, 2009
Rumors have circulated about Aubrey O'Day's sexuality since she started showing up at events with someone she referred to as her girlfriend. ...


FEATURE : Gay rugby referee Owens breaks the mold
Taipei Times, Taiwan - 2 hours ago
Most notably, his sexuality is no longer a secret. This is a big deal because Owens is an international rugby union referee. Being a referee is a lonely job ...


Daily Pilot

Episcopalians express loss over rift in church
Business Gazette, MD - 10 hours ago
"We are a more liberal diocese than many others, and there's not that many people who disagree with the Episcopal Church about human sexuality," Naughton ...
Theology splits area church Aiken Standard (subscription)
Local congregation severing ties with Episcopal Church WRDW-TV
Reporting 101 at The Nation GetReligion
Virtue Online
all 371 news articles


New York Daily News

New DVDs: Seth Rogen, James Franco light up 'Pineapple Express'
Inside Bay Area, CA - 21 hours ago
Contains violence, profanity and sexuality. DVD Extras: Featurettes and still gallery; also available, with more extras, on Blu-ray. man in this remake of ...
Pineapple Express goes up in smoke Calgary Herald
all 36 news articles


So Cool, It’s Hot
Bay Windows, MA - 1 hour ago
"What inspires about the writing contained in this anthology is how the aspect of sexuality is attacked, deconstructed, manipulated, or even dismissed," he ...


Homophobic abuse is unlawful regardless of victim's sexuality ...
Out-Law.com, UK - Jan 6, 2009
He claimed that the long period of sexuality-related abuse he suffered was harassment under 2003's Employment Equality (Sexual Orientation) Regulations. ...

Sexuality - Google News

home | site map
© 2006